Holistic Sex Coach Kim Anami is spreading the word about how to have ‘gourmet sex’ that transforms your life!
“Most people aren’t having life-changing sex,” says sexologist Kim Anami. “They just aren’t. Truly mind-blowing sex gives you energy, it doesn’t drain you of it. If you are falling asleep after orgasm, you are having what I call ‘junk food sex.’ It will feel good in the short term but ultimately it isn’t nourishing your system.”
Anami’s mission to share the personal tools for ‘gourmet sex’ is her deepest passion in life. As a coach, she has helped thousands of people heal and thrive by connecting to their sexual selves and feeling a natural flow of confidence and creative energy as a result. To reach a wider audience, she now holds online salons and tutorials to increase accessibility.
Serving couples, individuals, and new mothers, these salons offer insights and exercises to help clients open their minds and work through any emotional barriers that are preventing life-changing sex. “Sex can be transformative,” Anami says. “When people connect to this dormant energy within themselves, they absolutely flourish. They become productive, expressive and overcome obstacles with ease, because of this deep inner reconciliation.”
This flow of potent sexual vibes is not the default setting in Western society. “There has been a deliberate effort over centuries to separate people from the power of their sexual energy and the intelligence and knowledge of their own bodies,” Anami says. “My mission is to educate people about how it is possible for them to reclaim their power and energy through fully occupying their sexual selves.”
Meditation, breathwork, and peeling back emotional layers are important parts of the journey that Anami guides her clients through. She recommends ten minutes of chanting and breathwork before masturbating to deeply relax and enjoy the experience. “Everyone can be well-f**ked,” Anami says. “Some of the most well-f**ked times in my life have been when I was single. The only barrier is your own psychology and relationship to your body.”
These elements are an important part of the work because there is a lot of unlearning to do about acceptable body types and what sexuality looks like. Embarking on a personal odyssey to discover your own sexual expression can change what you are attracting to yourself in life. “Sexual energy is life force energy, it is the most generative force in the universe,” says Anami.
“Tapping into this life force energy is a revitalizing and healing therapeutic tool. Revving up your sexual energy increases magnetism and abundance.” Anami’s clients find themselves with more opportunities, more money, more creativity, and more fortuitous connections than ever before. “People tell me ‘Money is just falling into my lap now!’ and I say ‘Of course! It is coming from your lap in the first place!’”
Anami has pioneered the genre of holistic sex and relationship coaching, combining decades of research and experience with tantra, Taoism, meditation, and breathwork among many other disciplines, to create her own personal courses that lead clients toward a fulfilling sexual identity. Her dynamic energy and viral videos about vagina weight-lifting have garnered a huge and ever-growing following.
She caters to all genders but is especially focused on the repression of women and leading them out of the sexual prison they might not even know they’re in. The shame and judgment around female sexuality is an insidious voice that enters the bedroom and hampers natural expression. Awareness is the first step and Anami leads you by the hand from there.
Anami believes there is an epidemic of sexually unfulfilled women. The power of revolution if millions of women connected to their true potential and fired on all cylinders in their lives is astounding. “We are our own healers. We can find that healing energy and potential literally at our fingertips, at our genitals. And when we learn how to tap into that energy, we can do anything!”
Clients have healed themselves from depression and chronic illness by focusing on their sexual expression and seeing those results naturally flow into other areas of their lives. Anami is inundated with client testimonials, or as she calls them “Love Letters” that move her to tears because of the success and happiness that people have discovered within themselves.
“I get permanent results because I’m not into using Band-Aids. I’m looking at the true sources of disconnection in women and helping them to rebuild,” Anami says. “Every woman is capable of mind-blowing orgasms of all types. Every single woman. There is just a bit of work to do to uncover them, and that is what I’m here for!”
To explore the online salons, check out Kim Anami’s website. You can also follow her on YouTube, Instagram, and Facebook.